to reach an agreement with sb; to find a way of living or working together （与某人）达成协议，妥协
come to ˈterms with sth
to accept sth unpleasant by learning to deal with it 迁就顺从；接受（令人不快的事物）；适应（困难的处境）
She is still coming to terms with her son’s death.
她还没有完全从儿子死亡的阴影中走出来。