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Hey guys, what’s up?And welcome to the first episode of the Miss Way Way Q&A.Yay!>> [screaming] [music] >> I’m actually quite nervous, I have to admit.I have never done a Q&A before.I’ve actually been [music] asked by a pretty big platform.I don’t want to say who they are because I rejected them multiple times.Not because I don’t want to do it with them.I hate people knowing private details of my life,but I thought in this video we can get a little bit personal, and give you guys the opportunity, to actually know who I am because, you guys have been following, me for about two years now.So, I thought it’s time.First time everything.And thank you for over 500 questions.Thank you guys for participating.Thank you guys for sending me really interesting, funny,relatable questions.I’m so excited to answer some of them.So, yeah,without further ado, let’s get started.The most liked question and one of the most asked,what major do I study or did I study in university?
Okay, I majored in Bachelor of Fine Arts.I have a Bachelor’s degree performance.So, it’s like performance,drama, acting.This course that I did at QUT Queensland, where I grew up.I grew up in Queensland, but I live in Sydney,Australia now.I went to school in Queensland and the acting degree is incredibly, hard to get into.You have to have a certain OP.Overall position is basically out of 25.25 being the lowest and one being the highest.To get into the QUT course, you have to have OP above,was it seven?I think it was you have to have a OP above seven.On top of that, you need to audition.So, it’s audition based as well.So, it’s very hard to get into and they also only take 15 people a year.My grade only had 10 people a year.So, it’s like one of the best courses in Australia.I would say top three in Australia, top 50 in the world.It’s incredibly exclusive.So, when I got in,I literally cried because I just did not, think that I would ever get in to such an amazing course.
And I have met some amazing people.That’s something that I’m really proud of because it was incredibly, I guess,life-changing in a way as well.I got to work with some really amazing people in the industry.And also, Jacob Elordi went to my university and did exactly that same course.The Jacob Elordi.No, we were never friends.He was in the year above me.And when I came in my year, he kind of left.That’s when he just kind of left to go and do his LA thing.That course also produced amazing Australian actors like Keiynan Lonsdale,Guy Pearce, Grant Denyer,Ben Lawson, who I was really good friends with.Oh, and of course,me, now [music] an Australian YouTuber.Chinese YouTuber?Some of you guys out there that’s, asked me >> [music] >> what’s, my secret talent,I am a great pianist.I haven’t played in a long time, but I can play the piano quite well.I have an eighth [music] grade AMEB piano certificate.Like, is it a certificate like training,I guess?
Eighth grade is the highest that you can get out of AMEB, before going [music] into professional.So, I I am a great pianist.Your neighborhood star girl.Hey, your neighborhood star girl.Shout out to your neighborhood star girl.Question number one, what are your opinions about what’s going on in the world?Okay, there are so many things going on in the world.I would assume that your question might be more about the negative, things that are going on in the world right now.Honestly, when I’m in my low stages sometimes,when I’m about to get my period, like waking up sometimes,I’m not even over-exaggerating,I would just shed some tears because, a lot of really messed up up things is happening in the world right now.Honestly, the more I think about it,the sadder I get.and I do my best I do my best to you use my voice, to speak God’s truth to speak the truth to speak my truth.I feel deeply saddened every time I think about the bad things,but I also want to focus on the good things.A lot of people.
are actually putting into the, work like we see a lot of messed, up stuff and we see a lot of, people that don’t care about, the world,but, behind all that there are, also a huge number of people like billions of people out there who do give, financially,emotionally, spiritually,physically, as well to help those people myself included and a lot of people that I know.So I think yes, the negative things should motivate us to do better,but also the positive things, should also ground us to know, that we are doing better and, we can do better.I guess that’s how I feel and I do believe in karma.I believe in I say this all the time you reap what you sow.The good things that we do will multiply, and the bad things that we do will also multiply, and what goes around comes around.Thoughts on the LGBTQ+ community.This is one of the most asked question.Like so many people have asked what I think about the LGBTQ community and, I think there’s like a misconception, that I’m homophobic and that I hate.
the LGBTQ community which is not true at all.I’m not homophobic.I don’t look down on anyone.I will apologize though.I will apologize for maybe making a joke.Like I think I said something like is he gay?Because he was he looked gay.I’m sorry.He was wearing a crop top.He looked gay, but people thought that that was an insult.I’m sorry.I apologize to every single person I offended by saying that.No ifs, no buts,I apologize and I think I’ve never made that mistake again.LGBTQ+ community honestly, let’s get real.I don’t support it.I respect every individual.I’ve met a a of people from that community that’s been very lovely.And I’ve also met a lot of people from that community that’s just been chaotic, and horrendous, humans,but that’s in every community.It’s not just the LGBTQ community.I hate saying this, like,“Oh, I have gay friends.” But I have gay friends.I have a lot of gay friends.And I love them very much.I don’t see them as gay friends.
I don’t see them as people from the LGBTQ community.I just see them as my friends.I see them as humans, that just happen to have a different preference in sexuality.Like,I don’t, also push my beliefs on them and try and convert them to being Christians.I just hang out with them like any normal person.
I’m not against the LGBTQ community.But at the same time, I don’t vocally support them or fund them.Like, I don’t pay into their charity.I’ll just stay in my lane.I’ll stay in my Christian lane.And if someone from that community happens, to say anything that I believe is bad influence,then maybe I’ll speak out against it.
But most of the people from the community just want to be understood.They just want to be themselves.What advice do you have for a struggling teenager?Well, it depends on what you’re struggling with.This is a vague question,but I would say [music] my best advice is think about it like this, okay?I actually have a really good analogy or like metaphor, I guess you could say.
Rainy days can be a bit of a hazard sometimes, right?Not everyone hate rainy days, but most people don’t prefer rainy days.[music] Rainy days, you can’t really go outside and play.You get wet.It gets colder, right?You have to bring an umbrella.You have to maybe change how you travel.Rainy days can be a bit of an inconvenience, but can you stop rainy days?Can you tell God, “No more rain from now on?” No.And what are rainy days good for?Rainy days are good for growth.It [music] makes grass and plants grow again.It hydrates the earth.It hydrates animals.It’s good for nature.It’s the natural cause of the environment, the weather.You can’t stop it.>> [music] >> And it inconveniences you, but behind that,it also rehydrates the planet and creates growth.And this is how I see life as well, how we should look at struggles.Is it an inconvenience?Does it make us feel down and gloomy sometimes?Yes, but can you stop struggling?No.
You can literally try and lock yourself at home, not go outside as much,try and avoid struggles or facing certain obstacles in life,but there will still be struggles, even if you force yourself at home and avoid people.Struggling is inevitable for humans and it creates growth after the storm.So, instead of fighting against it,if you let yourself in the moment,like when you feel tears coming or crazy emotions coming or struggles, or suffering coming,you ride it out like the weather.You go, “Okay,I feel like crap right now.
(BrE, taboo, slang) bad; of very bad quality
a crap bandThe concert was crap.
This is a lot right now.” You let yourself feel it.You scream into a pillow.You let the tears out.You don’t fear it or suppress it or try and push it away or detach from it.You let it happen.Just like your emotions.Just like a rainy day.And that’s it.And then you move on and then you grow, shed skin.That’s the beauty of life.That really is truly beautiful.Everyone struggles in different ways.Everyone is dealt with different cards.It’s how we play the cards.
It’s how we rise up from the struggles.I struggled so much in my childhood and my teenage years.Some of the craziest, most painful things,but it’s made me the person that I am today and it’s made me really strong and, >> [music] >> I believe pretty wise.>> Can you give advice for someone, who just finished high school, and going to uni life and I am, going to take pre-med,very nervous.>> pre-med, that is a huge accomplishment.Congrats.Very nervous, of course you would be.This is a huge progression into a different stage of your life.Is there anything I’d like to tell to a 18-year-old?You specifically, you’ve already made it this far.You’re already in the game.All I can say is good luck.Do your absolute best.Make good impacts in the world.Balance study with life.Still go out and enjoy life sometimes.Hang out with your friends sometimes.Still take care of yourself.Don’t get too caught up in academic success that you lose the fun part of life.So, bring a good balance to it.Boyfriend reveal.
Boyfriend, that’s also one of the most asked questions.Do I have a boyfriend?Boyfriend reveal.I don’t have a boyfriend.I’ve only had two boyfriends in my whole life.I’m 27 years old.Oh, another question that every single one of you guys asked.I’m 27 years old right now.When I say boyfriends, I mean like long-term boyfriends for years.Both of them I dated for around 3 years, before breaking up and going into different directions of our lives.Both boyfriends we talked about marriage, engagement.Both met each other’s families.Was very serious.Like truly had love for them.But, I think I’ve only been in love once.And at this moment,I have not had a boyfriend since my last very serious relationship.Do I like someone right now?Maybe.Maybe.The next man I want to be sure that he’s my husband.I want to be sure.I know what I want in life.I love my life.I have a sense of purpose.I’m ready for a family.I’m currently in a stage where I’m ready for a husband.I have an idea of who my husband might be.
I think God told me.I’m not joking.Some of you might think I’m crazy.God literally told me twice who my husband will be,but I guess we’ll have to see.We’ll have to see and only time will reveal.Can you give your honest opinion on the Hostess update?I don’t support them.Like, do I hate them?No.Do I like them?No.I think that they act really impulsively.I don’t believe that they’re a great influence on young women.I don’t believe that we should look at them like role models.Again, I think they’re just purely entertainment.After you watch them, I think that should be about it.Leave them at that.No hate to them, but no support either.Three, details on your childhood.Love you so much.Love you so much back.Details on my childhood.Ah, [sighs] I think that would make this video go very,very long.I was always like the loud kid with ADHD.My grandma used to chase me, around the entire house and like courtyard and garden, just trying to feed me food because, I was just running around everywhere.
not wanting to sit down.And I would like climb the bars, climb the trees,and she would just chase me and feed me food.I’m not going to lie.I’m not going to lie.I was popular in school though.>> [music] >> Even in primary school or kindergarten, high school,even university, I was popular,I would say.I wasn’t like the typical popular girl with like a clique, with a group,but I think everyone overall liked me.Even people that didn’t like me at least respected, me, and I didn’t have a group.I was literally kind of friends with everyone.Like I was because I I still have that level of ADHD in me.I just kind of dabbled in all the groups.I wanted to get to know everyone.I never really like define myself with one group of people like the gothic, group.Really hot group of girls or like the Asian group, the music group,or the art group.Like I just kind of went around into people’s lives,wanted to get to know them individually,wanted to learn things from different people in different groups.
I was genuinely like that.I would say I kind of treated everyone equally.I really did.If I liked people,it didn’t matter what they looked like or which group they were in.And if I didn’t like people, I don’t care who you are.I I will shut you down.That’s who I was in my childhood.I really was like that.I went to boarding school.I don’t think I’ve ever said that,but I went to boarding school since a very young age, at the age of five.My parents were divorced, as some of you guys may know,and yeah, they had to work,so they sent me to Shanghai while they were in different cities,and I saw them every four weeks.I would see my family.Probably wouldn’t be my parents or both my parents,probably be my grandma or extended family, but yeah,it was Honestly, that was not a fun time.That was some of the most confusing, lost,and lonely time of my life because, imagine going to a boarding school, at the age of five.That’s something that I absolutely hated.
I think boarding school, maybe when the child’s more mature,that’s understandable, but five was a bit too much for me.I was also homeschooled for a small period, too.I was homeschooled because I think my parents realized, >> [laughter] >> how far away boarding school was,so I was homeschooled for a bit as well.I grew up in China.I was born in China, and then I moved to Australia later on in my life.Moonlight_moon, why do I love you?I don’t know.Why do you love me?This is one of the most asked questions, >> [music] >> literally,not just in this comment section, across my entire YouTube channel.So, what better way to tell you guys than [music] show you guys?Hi Vogue, and welcome to my channel.Hey Vogue, and welcome to my home.Today, I will be showing >> [laughter] >> I can’t take it seriously,okay.Focus, lock in.>> Lock in.>> Hey Vogue, why am I saying Vogue?Scratch it, I don’t care anymore.But, okay,so this one is from sunlight 2W.Hello, sunlight 2W.Hey, so,I am a student,
and I really like the way you think and the self-confidence you have.I just want to know,how do I stop thinking about others’ opinion, and be myself and be confident like you,and I’m a big fan.Aw, that’s so sweet.Thank you so much.That means a lot to me.>> I feel like this is one of the most asked questions for people in general.No one is ever 100% confident all the time.That is just kind of impossible, unrealistic,and I hope that the reality of that kind of give you guys, a sense of relatability.Like we can all relate to each other in the sense that, we all have moments where we feel really insecure,really down, keeping the balance,you know, it’s okay if you feel like you’re not confident sometimes.I’ve always been really extroverted ever since growing up.Like just being born,my mom said that I had the loudest cry on the day OF MY BIRTH.OBVIOUSLY, I’M NOT EXTROVERTED ALL THE TIME.I can actually be very grounded and quiet and gentle,which is like my private side, my other side,
grounded: adjective having a sensible and realistic attitude to life （对生活）持有理智和现实态度的
Away from Hollywood, he relies on his family and friends to keep him grounded.
离开好莱坞之后，他靠家人和朋友使自己保持心态平衡。
and really sweet.Really sweet.Wash your face.I wash my face always with sensitive face wash because I have sensitive skin.[music] And I actually recommend everyone to use sensitive face wash.I use non-stripping.
In the context of skincare, non-stripping describes a cleanser that cleans your skin without removing its natural oils, moisture, or protective barrier.
I sometimes use like an oil-based one,which is really good because it hydrates my face throughout the day.So anything that strengthens my skin barrier, makes it really healthy and firm.Hydration is a must, and I cut out the toner.Toner is not a part of my step because I think toners are a massive scam.I never exfoliate.Most toners exfoliate your skin.Just think about it.While I’m trying to build my skin barrier, make it stronger,firmer, thicker every single day,and there are people out there exfoliating their skin, breaking it up,trying different products every single month whilst using toner,which stimulates, your skin so much, especially if you use it so many times a day.And face masks, clay masks,scrubs, all these things strip your skin.
clay: a type of heavy sticky earth that can be used for making pots, bricks etc
While some Some are building their skin barrier,some people are literally unconsciously, or consciously stripping away their skin.Tips for the girlies out there with sensitive skin,especially if you’re acne prone [music] or if you have really dry skin,I recommend really being cautious with what you put on your skin.Like do your own researches, do it well,maybe speak to a dermatologist or a doctor.Always do research before putting stuff on your skin because yeah,your skin is so important.You don’t want to be like ignorant about it.Lesson one done.Wash your face and then I put a serum.I put The Ordinary Hyaluronic Acid Serum.The price has always kind of stayed the same.It’s a reasonably priced product.So,I hydrate my face with the serum and now it’s like sticky and then I put lotion.I love this lotion.I care about the ingredients.I don’t buy products just because they look pretty because, some of it can destroy, your skin.This is The Ordinary again.This is like a combo that I always get.
The Ordinary Caffeine Solution.It reduces the appearance of dark circles and puffiness.I think my puffy eye bags are genetics.Like it’s definitely 100% genetics because my dad has really crazy, eye bags and I think he passed it on to me, and I don’t like it.I put sunscreen on.I never put primer on because again, I think primer is kind of like toner,one of those things that’s unnecessary and doesn’t really do much.It’s I I think it’s like placebo.It’s another scam.I use sunscreen as >> [music] >> my primer because it makes my face sticky.It brightens my face.It makes it dewy, and it protects me from the sun, and my face is nice and dewy and shiny and I’m ready for, my, makeup.Let’s get back to the topic on how to be confident.I have spoken about how to be confident in one of my videos, I think.I don’t think extroversion is a requirement to be confident.Confidence doesn’t come from your personality type.Confidence isn’t about how much you have, or what personality you have,
or how you look, or what your family has,or what you do,or thinking you’re special and you’ve accumulated so many, materialistic things and toys,achieve so many great achievements, and you’re so fantastic in a worldly way,like well-traveled, well-dressed,well-put-together this and that.Like those things could help, but again,it comes from building the foundation of it.It’s kind of like if you’ve done music or dance or ballet or anything classical, or even painting,right?You don’t just get straight into the steps and then become like a ballerina.You don’t just like pick up a pencil and just start drawing a dog.You don’t start off by drawing a house, you start off by drawing lines,and then you draw circles, and then shapes,and then slowly you are able to start drawing more complex things.And I think that’s the same with growth and confidence.It’s fine, take your time,grow it slowly, but it’s like everything,confidence is something that’s to be curated, to be nurtured,not to be faked.
I never believe in fake it till you make it.Those type of people can only appear loud.All they can say is they don’t care, and not caring does not equal confidence.A lot of people say like, “Don’t care what people think.Fake it till you make it.Be loud.Be ignorant.Be dilulu.Be in dilulu is the solulu.”, And I’ve been there, and that’s not real confidence,because it takes like one criticism, or one look from another person that didn’t sit right with you to set you off,to set that person off.
Here set someone off means to make someone suddenly angry, upset, or emotionally triggered.
Similar with: She’s going off about something that you sai
Fig. [for something] to be acceptable or understandable to someone. (Very close to sit well with someone.)
What you just said doesn’t really sit right with me. Let’s talk about it. It didn’t sit right with the boss
It takes one little mistake in their day to completely, break their confidence or crack them,and they become emotional and aggressive.That’s not confidence, because it’s not rooted in groundedness.
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Confidence is when you do care about how you’re perceived by others,because you don’t want to be a menace.You don’t want to be a menace to society.You don’t want to do dumb things and then people are like,“What?” Like you make other people feel uncomfortable, or you trigger other people,being a bad influence,
being unhealthy in every single way and saying I don’t care.Being delulu is a solulu.That’s That’s not real confidence.When you actually get to the bottom of confidence,you actually realize it’s kind of like common sense.Not many people have it.It’s really rare.Common sense is not that common and I think that’s the same with confidence.It’s really not that common.Being confident comes from clarity.[music] It comes from knowing who you are.If you don’t know who you are, then your confidence is blind.I would say it’s more delusion.It comes from listening to that right and wrong thing in your head,like knowing when to do [music] what and when not to do what.I think to build it,my best advice to build confidence, is literally [music] do something nice every day.So, one thing nice every day without telling anyone.So,it could be helping, your friend with something, or helping your mom with something, or picking up a piece of rubbish, from the floor, and not tell anyone about it.Just you and God.
So, you’re building that inner confidence,like I can be kind without anyone watching.You know,you could even give like $5 away to your local church or to a charity event,whatever of your choice and don’t tell anyone and keep, doing little things like that every day.And then, a second thing to build confidence,I would say, go out of bed without wearing makeup.Like there are days where you can just go somewhere without wearing makeup, and try and talk to someone or try and make eye contact with someone, without hiding yourself.I talk to a stranger every day, maybe like the cashier,maybe someone at my gym.Like, “Hey,how are you?” That’s literally it.And I slowly build that up.Again, I don’t need to tell anyone about it.It’s just quiet confidence.And like I said, confidence [music] comes from not thinking you’re that special.Like everyone is the same.When you think about the world, like we’re all on the same level,no one’s higher than you and no one’s lower than you.
It gives you a sense of clarity.Again, like I always tell you guys,the world is built, by people that want to brainwash, us and control us and put it put us in our place.So, that doesn’t exist in my world.No one’s better than me.I’m [music] no better than anyone.And when we’re all kind of on the same level, you start to humanize everyone.Like I don’t feel bad about myself because other people have what I don’t have.And I also don’t feel like I have to prove myself that much, push myself,or think I’m higher than others because I’m also not better than anyone.So, it humanizes everybody.And in a really good and genuine way, like in a very good comforting way,too, a relatable way.Anyone can be my friend, literally.Well, maybe not everyone,but it humanizes everyone.We’re all the same.We all have the same thoughts, men and women,really.We truly do, just at certain times.We can all be different people at different times.We’re all humans.And that gives us confidence.
If you think you’re special, and if you think people are better than you,and you have to constantly work hard, work hard,work hard, build confidence,be smart, so you can feel enough,but that’s you’re never going to feel enough.But, the reality is we’re all literally the same.We’re all children of God.We’re all humans.Yeah,that’s a mindset shift in me that’s, given me so much confidence and so much love for myself and others.Ooh, I love this.I use like an old mascara.Does anyone do this?I use an old mascara as like a tint, and kind of like a eyebrow gel to brush my eyebrows.You guys know how much I love Justin Bieber.He’s also married to one of my favorite models, Hailey Bieber.And they’re both Christian.They’re such a cute little Christian couple.Everyone likes to hate on them, but I honestly,no one can change my mind about them.They’re so sweet.My favorite song right now, I’m going to get copyrighted for this,but [music] it’s a Chinese song by this guy called No No.
He’s a really cool Chinese artist.[music] He Oh, his songs are kind of like Justin Bieber,but he’s Chinese.He’s really cool.R&B all night.This is one of the most asked questions as well.This is going to be the most boring answer,and you guys Some of you guys out there might think I’m kind of BS-ing,and some of you might even think I’m pretty crazy for saying this,but I think God let me Not even joking.I do think God called me to do YouTube.I really do.In terms of my skills, I studied performance,like fine arts, acting,drama, music.I’m quite expressive.I studied law for like 2 years in high school.I’m quite logical and expressive, kind of combative combative.I’m very opinionated.I don’t want to be, I hope like in my old age I chill out a little bit and not be so opinionated.Because my dad likes to say it’s not very ladylike, but we’ll see.We’ll see who I am in like the next 5 or 10 years.And I was also in the entertainment industry.I had an agent, Clinton.
He was like He’s a top agent in Australia.Like a lot of people know him.He signed me.That didn’t work out.And also, what can I do?I really did.I asked God for ages.I worked in real estate.I worked in retail.I worked in a few industries, and I just didn’t know what to do.And I was like, “God,what should I do?” And I just remember my ex-boyfriend also told me like,“You should do YouTube.You could like I can see you being really, really popular on YouTube.” But he meant more like beauty YouTuber,like beauty and fashion,because I was really into beauty and fashion when I was younger.But I didn’t want to do beauty and fashion,because that’s not really truly me and I think those things, it’s just unsustainable.So I was like, okay,what should I do?And I literally just started vlogging one day.I don’t know why.I looked at my phone.I felt like God told me some, type of force was just pushing, me to do YouTube and when I started, YouTube there was no particular, there was no particular structure.
I didn’t know what I was doing on YouTube.[laughter] All I knew was I wanted to start YouTube and it to be exactly me.Like I didn’t want the excess makeup and makeups and stuff.I didn’t want the fashion, the brands.I didn’t want like an expensive lifestyle.I didn’t want to tell my deepest darkest secrets like my private life, to the world.I don’t want to be problematic.I just kind of want to, do something, without doing anything I just mentioned and it seemed kind of impossible.I was like, what type of stuff can I do?I never like constructive criticism or like commentary never crossed my mind.I don’t know any I didn’t know any of the influences that I was talking about.So I would say that God did lead me to this.Like really strangely.I really do think in a weird, superstitious way that I was genuinely the perfect person for this job.One of one of the people that was really right for this job.I had no idea and it it’s literally like God just employed me.God like you can edit.
I can edit and I love editing.Like you can edit.Well, if you’re not that good you can learn and get better.You have the equipment to do it.You have the space in the house to do it.You have the time to do it.Like get to it.And it just happened.Look, I’m not going to be surprised if you guys called me crazy for saying that.As insane as that sounds, God really did employ me.Please don’t take it as this is I’m chosen and I’m special.We all have a purpose.Well, if you believe in God or if you’re a Christian,then I would say like we all have a purpose and I guess yeah.If you’re religious, you would know exactly what I’m talking about.God literally appointed to me.He was like, “This is your purpose.Go out there and tell the truth.” If you know, you know.If you don’t know, you’ll think I’m absolutely bonkers for saying that.All right, so everything is kind of almost done.Oh, my lip combo.Lip combo.Any lip liner.This is just like a random pharmaceutical one.This one’s more pink.
I’ll use this one.I don’t like the cupid’s bow.I’m sorry.I know some of you guys out there love the cupid’s bow and it, probably looks amazing on you guys,but I really like the round look and I use This was a gift.[music] Tom Ford.This is I don’t know what this color is.I would say just kind of lip color.Natural lip color.It’s literally the same color as my lips and then I just dab it.I never go hard on my lips.I always dab it for a really >> [music] >> natural look.Okay, my favorite lip gloss at the moment it’s Rhode by Hailey Bieber.I have like literally three.This one’s like a brown lip gloss.It’s really cute if you want that 80s, 90s,early 2000s, kind of grungy look and then this one is clear, watermelon flavor and this one is clear but salted caramel flavor.I have the lip case and I can just like slide any one of them in, and it’s literally my wallet.All my credit cards are on my phone.It’s all digital.Lip gloss literally the only the only thing I need.
My loyalty card for my nail lady who’s Christian.She’s so sweet.I love her.I have the best relationship with my nail lady.This is literally my handbag.Like just how simple is that?Which one should we pick?Intuition test.Salted caramel.Done.Lip combo, simple.You don’t have to use this, obviously.You can [music] use any brand, any brand of lip liner,any brand of lipstick, but keep the lipstick natural.Don’t use a color that’s too dark or too bright.Use [music] the same color, kind of on the same spectrum as your own lip color.Just like a nice gloss over.Don’t use a colored gloss, use a clear gloss.Best combo ever.Brightens you up immediately.You don’t even have to wear foundation or makeup.Sometimes just a bit of blush, a little bit of mascara,and then the lip combo.I’m telling you, it gives you that glow.Do try this at home.Will you marry me if I was a frog with a billion dollars?No.I would not marry a frog because I want to have babies one day.I want to be a mom with a real man.
And also, [music] I don’t care about billionaires.I really don’t.I’m straight.I’m definitely straight.Even if I wasn’t Christian, I’m still straight.But when I wasn’t Christian, or during my time in university,I thought I might have liked girls, but I never acted on it.I had weirdly, when I was at university,a lot of girls had crushes on me.I had this one girl who I won’t name, but she was really beautiful.She was really sweet.I think [music] she was lesbian.She really liked me, and she even went as far as pursuing me.And I think that really confused me.Again, I never acted out on it.I’m glad I didn’t go down that path because I would have led people on.I would have confused people and confused myself even more,but I’m definitely straight.And yeah, even looking back,I wasn’t Christian, I didn’t act on it.I wanted to stay strong in my own sexuality.There are gay people out there that are born gay,but I also think a lot of times a lot of propaganda,
a lot of things that we see in Hollywood and on screen,a lot of things that kind of brainwash us as well, make us confused as well.So, that’s my honest take about sexuality.I think it’s really easy to think, um outside of the box if we don’t have anything that ground us.And when I say outside of the box, I don’t mean like creative thinking.I mean more abstract thinking that might not be as good for your mental health.So, I think it’s important to know who we are.Some people have asked me about my type.I like men.I like Christian men, Chinese because I’m very traditional,my family, my dad is crazy traditional,and I would want to marry someone my own race.There’s more relatability, there’s more understanding,there’s more similarities,and I think I find more intimacy and connection in that, and I find Chinese men,Asian men very attractive.I’m genuinely attracted to them.I like that we share similar values and cultures,masculine and grounded and intellectual.
I can’t date someone who don’t have a growth mindset.I’m constantly growing, and growing closer to God and Jesus and learning every single day.I want my partner to have the same mindset.Obviously, he has to love Jesus.I want someone who’s willing to lead me.I don’t want to be the one that tells my husband or partner what to do,and I don’t want them to tell me what to do either,but I want there to be a sort of guidance,like leadership rather than being a boss and controlling.I want someone who I’m really attracted to.Yeah, that’s what I want.I want to say tall, but like that’s so superficial.Like what is tall going to do?If he’s just tall What am I going to do with a tall man that >> [laughter], >> So yeah,that’s my type.It’s really not much.It’s not much God, come on.Bring him in.Sometimes, I used to feel more lonely to the point where I would cry because I just felt so, lonely in this world and especially when I was living alone in this house.I have housemates now.I have two housemates.
So three of us in this house.But when I was living alone just with Benji, oh my gosh,some of the nights felt pain.Like I felt physical pain.But now after walking closer to God and Jesus,I feel such a strong sense of purpose, love surrounding me,more energy, more stability.I really enjoy being alone now.Every now and then I’m like I need a partner.Like it’s time to start a family.I genuinely enjoy my own solitude.I recharge from being alone now.So The real answer is nothing.I really truly love being a YouTuber.I would keep being a YouTuber until the day I die as long as I can,as long as you guys would let me, as long as God would let me.I would just keep being a YouTuber.With that being said, if I wasn’t a YouTuber,I would be a lawyer.Like my my mom [music] and dad probably both, really want me to do law or real estate.I’m currently a full-time YouTuber.I’m not going to say how much money I make.I make enough that I’m happy >> [music] >> to be a full-time YouTuber, truly.
I don’t spend a crazy amount of money.I like saving.I have a pretty happy lifestyle.I don’t want too much.I’m a full-time YouTuber now, but I was doing real estate.I was managing properties, and renting out houses and I was going to start selling [music] and I got, office from great agent, sees,great real estate agencies, but I decided not to pursue that path.And my parents both would have, really wanted me to do law because, I’m a great debater,but my brother’s actually doing law.My brother did study law.My brother is incredibly academically smart, industrious,and hard working.Shout out to my brother,but I don’t know if he wants to continue to pursue that.I think he wants to do something more creative.After studying law and seeing the court system and how it worked,it made me realize law is kind of like the entertainment industry,which is another reason why I left the entertainment industry as well.Law, it’s not really about defending the truth.
When you actually get to the court of law, it’s about defending just the client.I mean, you could defend the truth,but you probably won’t get as many jobs.You probably won’t even be a lawyer.You probably just do the very basic things.You probably just kind of be an intern, or like an office runner for, the first few years of your life, until you actually get to be, a lawyer.Becoming a proper lawyer is incredibly hard.Ultimately, it’s about defending your client,not really about defending the truth.And I think that’s why my brother, wanted to shift away from that, as well because he realized, how, unjust the justice system actually is.Just growing up, you just realize nothing is what it seems.Of course,there are people certain people in the industry that remain, good people with morals,but that’s on the lesser side.YouTube is perfect.I’m my own boss.I can say what I want to say.I can work when I want to work.I take the responsibilities if things go wrong.There’s no one to blame.I get creative.
I get to choose the topics.I can make the connections.Like I’m literally my own boss.That’s why I love YouTube so much.It’s the perfect occupation for someone like me.A lot of people ask me like how did I come to this religion?Like how did I go from Buddhism to now being Christian?This is such a long topic.I did make a video about it.It’s this one.If you guys are interested, give it a watch.I go more in depth with it.Someone said, “Not related to the caption,but I really really like and appreciate you.I really like to watch your videos and keep on going.Thank you.Appreciate you so much.Be yourself, but in a healthy,authentic way.Not just authentic, a healthy,authentic way.Be kind and generous to people, but also protect yourself.Don’t give yourself to everyone, because not everyone has your best interests at heart.Be smart, be switched on.Gravitate towards kind people, too.Don’t be selfish.Don’t be too closed off, but don’t be too open,either.Find a balance and enjoy friendship.
Even if you make mistakes, go with the process,go with the flow, trust your intuition.You might make lifelong friends in high school.Don’t suck up to anyone.Don’t try and get into any cliques.Don’t try to be someone you’re not.Yeah, don’t try to be someone you’re not for people that you don’t really like,which will make you feel bad in the end,which will make you regret your experience.Gravitate towards people who love you back.Be cool in your own ways, you know,make something happen yourself.Be a trendsetter.Speak the truth,stand up for the things that you believe in in a honest and respectful way.And yeah, learn.Try and learn.Try and do your homework.Be responsible, but also at the same time have fun.Don’t date and give your body away, men or women,to anyone because you are so precious.Not everyone deserves to touch you and get intimate with you.Protect your body and soul with everything you’ve got.Don’t give yourself to anyone unless that person wants your hand in marriage,
literally.That person is so set on you.Okay, because some men or women come on strong.They want to pursue you, not because they love you.Most of the time they don’t even know what love is.Protect everything about yourself and give it to the right person.It’s literally the shortest passage ever.John 11:35.very simple, Jesus wept.Even Jesus, the son of God,cried in the downtimes.He let his emotions out, he got in touch with his emotions,he let himself feel things without being cold and overly detached and chaotic.He wept.I really love it, it’s so simple,but sometimes it’s the simple things.I hope to meet my husband.How will who encourage you to speak the truth and have you ever gotten, scared by the fact that there will be consequences, of your videos?And if yes, how do you manage such situations?Really love your videos.I have a lot of people ask me similar things, how do you deal with hate,how do you deal with backlash, yeah,just negativity.I think and also thank you for loving my videos.
Thank you for watching.I think like who encouraged me?God.It’s It always comes back to God and my parents.My parents are both very outspoken, like it’s in their genes.They’ve mellowed out now, but they were very outspoken people,very highly energetic people, very hard working people,both very kind people in their own ways, but very flawed people too.My parents always encouraged me.Obviously, they disciplined me as well,but they always encouraged me to be myself, and God’s also encouraged me with that as well.Speaking the truth requires a high level of kindness and empathy, and strategy and tactics.Whereas I think, I used to just speak the truth, and they could hurt people and, I’ve definitely learnt my lesson, the hard way.I do self-reflect, a lot and I am becoming better at speaking the truth with more, awareness and kindness, and I think, speaking the truth is really important because when we cuddle people,even the ones we love,it’s ultimately a selfish thing because we are afraid of breaking that bond.
So it’s not like we’re looking after someone else’s feelings,it’s more like most of the time,sometimes it is to look after other people’s feelings,but then you’re not really actually looking at their greater growth.You’re just looking after their feelings because of who they are now.And that kind of stunts someone’s growth.And also when we speak the truth, in the long run,because we look at long-term gain for everyone, not just us,it’s more beneficial, especially when it’s done correctly,and it wakes people up.And whether you like it or not, whether I like it or not,that’s the only way for good, positive change and impact,to speak the truth and to work and make long-term goals and plans.That’s why I do it, and my parents have always encouraged me to speak the truth.God is literally my backbone.I know that when it’s grounded in him,and I have the best and the purest of intentions,even if I get hated on for now,in the long term, it will serve.
a much greater purpose and have a better outcome.So,I don’t mind temporary hate because I know what I, am doing is not rooted in selfishness,for attention.People barely know anything about me.This is the first time I’ve done a Q&A,and I still like to remain >> [music] >> private in a lot of ways.I’m not doing this for attention.I don’t want brand deals or collaboration deals.I left the entertainment industry.I don’t want to be in Hollywood.I don’t want to be famous or a celebrity.I know what I’m doing is right.I know the world needs to wake up.I think the world is waking up.I’m not the only person spreading awareness, but everyone that’s doing it,I think has similar mentalities as me.This is the only way.This is the only way.We’ve lived for too long in the dark.It hurts each other.We kill each other for hierarchy, for power,for materialistic things that don’t matter.I know that what I’m saying will be useful, will make a really good impact.To speak confidently, it must be rooted in love,
kindness, from experience,some level of strategy and tactic, good intentions,honesty, and know that God’s got your back.My first job was a ice cream girl.[music] I really like that job.I actually got fired.Because I was giving too much ice cream to the customers and the boss was like,“We’re losing money.You can’t do this.” I think I was let go.But, the boss overall liked me.Like, that we didn’t have any conflict or problems.I think he just thought I was too overly generous.I worked at a ice cream shop.Cold Rock is where you can mix and match ice cream.Like, you smash the ice cream with chocolates and um candy.And I was like 13 years old.I got paid $7 an hour.Can you believe that?The answer is no and yes.I’ve never been sued.People have threatened, I guess,to sue me.I’ve had, I think,two people threatening to sue me.I can’t name them, but I just ignored them and never heard from them again.Like, they didn’t push it further.So, I think it was just all bluff to shut me down.
In terms of big YouTubers or very well-known people that’s messaged me, I have.They have.I can’t tell you guys who they are,but I have had some pretty, well-known, people, in my DMs, that’s reached out to me and also who’s, responded back to me after me reaching out to them.But, I have to keep those things really private.Legally, I can’t say anything either.A lot of them have expressed their opinions to me on certain topics, and asked me for advice,as well.I would say all of them, when I actually got to know them,when I saw their humanity,they’re actually all pretty genuine [music] and like normal people.I’m 167 [music] cm tall.From roller pool Jesus!It’s literally Jesus and God.Jesus Christ and God are my biggest role models.I will not be the person that I am without them.They literally saved my life, saved my soul,saved me from the dark place that I was once in when I was struggling a lot.They literally healed my ADHD.It’s just insane, unimaginable.
Some of you guys would be like, she’s so diluted.I’m not.The magic that they’ve done in me, the therapy that they’ve done in me,the healing that they’ve done in me.I used to be an outsider looking in thinking this is crazy.It’s insane how they saved my life and literally transformed me.My life is this.My life is in God’s hands.Thank you guys so much for watching.Thank you for tuning in.Thank you for the amazing questions.I’m sorry if I didn’t get to answer your [music] questions.I love you all.Stay blessed, stay safe,stay happy, and I’ll see you guys in the next video.Bye.God bless.>> [music].
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