/ˈɔːf pʊtɪŋ/

off-putting

BrE /ˈɒf pʊtɪŋ/

NAmE /ˈɔːf pʊtɪŋ/,

/ˈɑːf pʊtɪŋ/

(informal, especially BrE)

not pleasant, in a way that prevents you from liking sb/sth

I find his manner very off-putting.